A must-read for all my mothers…

To all my mothers out there — Happy Mother’s Day 🫶🏾


Whatever it is that you’re doing… it is enough.


So today, I hope you give yourself permission to do whatever you need to feel full.
Relaxed.
Rested.
Restored.
Ready.


And please don’t call it a lazy day?

I hate lazy day.
Because I have yet to meet a lazy woman.

Not my friends.
Not my clients.
Not my coworkers.
Not the women in this community.


If you think back to the last time you called yourself “lazy,” I guarantee it was actually a recovery day from everything you’ve been carrying, managing, giving, and doing.

So the next time you’re tempted to call yourself lazy, I want you to pause and remember all that you already do.


You deserve rest.
You deserve recovery.
You deserve to feel like the most rested, relaxed, and regulated version of yourself.

So today, I hope you do something just for you.
Something that recharges you.
Something that refills your cup.

You deserve that too.


Much love,
Nikia

Hello I'm Nikia!

Exhausted but still pushing? I help high-achieving women of color escape exhaustion and embrace sustainable success through real self-care, rest rituals, and burnout recovery tools.Your soft life starts here.