I woke up and thought…”not today”

Hey Reader.

This morning my alarm went off.
And my immediate response was: Nope.
I need two more hours.


Luckily, I didn’t have to work today, so I rolled over and went back to sleep.

And honestly?
It felt amazing.


The past few months have been chaotic. Family emergencies. Travel. Conferences. Weddings. Business building. Work. Life.

I’m finally reaching the other side of that busy season, but this morning reminded me of something important:

I didn’t need the rest after everything calmed down.

I needed it now.


So many of us treat rest like a reward.

We’ll rest after the project.
After the launch.
After the busy season.
After the to-do list is done.

The problem?
The list is never done.
Life keeps moving.

And if we’re not careful, we spend years waiting for life to finally calm down.

This morning, I listened.

Not because I was sick.
Not because I was forced to.

Because I was tired.

And that’s enough reason.

So let me ask you:

When was the last time you woke up needing more rest and actually took it?


With love,

Nikia


Hello I'm Nikia!

Exhausted but still pushing? I help high-achieving women of color escape exhaustion and embrace sustainable success through real self-care, rest rituals, and burnout recovery tools.Your soft life starts here.